The Little Foxes

In a relationship, it is easy for the “little foxes” slowly creep their way in and strangle the relationship like weeds in a garden.

The Little foxes refer to the moments you don’t feel heard or you’re shut down or dismissed.

Maybe you’re unappreciated and taken for granted, making you feel like you’re not valued or a priority.

This causes each person to pull away emotionally, stop communicating, and each person may become critical, hypersensitive and treat their partner with contempt and disrespect.

When one person tries to communicate to their partner how they feel in the relationship, the partner may come back with a deflection, shutting down the other person, dismissing their feelings and even blaming and justifying their behaviour. This causes two people to pull away from each other.

The partner trying to communicate their feelings of hurt and pain stops communicating because they can’t trust their partner with their heart.

Is there any coming back from this?

Can this relationship be saved?

With self-reflection, owning behaviour, listening and validating each other’s feelings and perspectives, this relationship can be turned around.

Trust needs to be rebuilt and this takes time.

A woman needs to feel she can trust her partner with her heart to be able to connect emotionally.

A man needs to be appreciated and respected and his efforts to be validated.

If you would like support in turning your relationship around, click on the link below for a booking today.