Men in Relationships

Why do men stay at work longer?

Answer: Because he wants to, is the short answer.

A man does not want to be criticised when he walks through the door.

He wants to be listened to.

He wants to be encouraged.

He wants to be respected.

He wants to be valued.

If you want your man to want to come home, then welcome him home. Listen, respect, encourage and validate him.

Would you treat a stranger the way you treat your husband?

When you meet someone new, aren’t you polite, respectful, friendly and you even listen to what they have to say.

Why do we speak to strangers better than we speak to each other?

What couples do is keep a file of wrongs and they pull out this file during arguments.

If you want to turn your relationship around so your man wants to come home to you, get rid of the file of wrongs that you’ve held onto for years.

Stop bringing up the file every time you feel your man has done wrong.

Stop reminding your man of his flaws.

If you encourage, love unconditionally, forgive, validate and listen to him when he came through the door, he would want to come home to you sooner.

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